Move NATS startup from New() to Start(), so tests that don't use
pubsub never block on server initialization. Add a 10s timeout to
WaitForServer() and skip NATS tests gracefully when unavailable.
Pub/sub now works out of the box — New() starts a process-scoped
embedded NATS server with JetStream. The PubSub interface remains
for custom backends via Config(Options{PubSub: ...}).
- Move vianats functionality into nats.go (eliminates circular import)
- Add NATSConn(), JetStream(), EnsureStream(), ReplayHistory[T]() to via
- Delete vianats/ package
- Simplify nats-chatroom and pubsub-crud examples
- Rewrite pubsub tests to use real embedded NATS
