feat: auto-start embedded NATS server in New()

Pub/sub now works out of the box — New() starts a process-scoped
embedded NATS server with JetStream. The PubSub interface remains
for custom backends via Config(Options{PubSub: ...}).

- Move vianats functionality into nats.go (eliminates circular import)
- Add NATSConn(), JetStream(), EnsureStream(), ReplayHistory[T]() to via
- Delete vianats/ package
- Simplify nats-chatroom and pubsub-crud examples
- Rewrite pubsub tests to use real embedded NATS

go.mod

@@ -38,6 +38,5 @@ require (
 	github.com/valyala/bytebufferpool v1.0.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/crypto v0.45.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.38.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/time v0.14.0
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v3 v3.0.1 // indirect
 )